As posted on my campaign blog:
I never really took the time to write a concession speech or give one for that matter, that’s what you do when you run a “big” campaign, but I believe that to be a successful politician, or anything else for that matter it is very beneficial to study the pitfalls and mistakes that lead to losing than to focus on just the ways to win.
With that being said, I have a few thank-yous I need to get out of the way.
I’d like to thank God first of all, for giving me the desire and the courage to get involved. Knowing that what you do is not for your own glory, but for His sure does make knocking on doors much easier. I was able to share the gospel a couple of times over the course of a few months. I knocked on over 2500 doors and you never know what a smile and a friendly word might do for the person opening up their home to you.
I also appreciate all the support I was given from my friends, family, fellow church members, and the neighbors I met out on the campaign trail. I received 673 votes and without your assistance I might have only received my vote alone! I especially thank my wife she was not on board in the beginning, but made many phone calls and helped with many of the other aspects of the campaign before it was over.
So what did I learn?
1. Make sure Momma is on board. Make sure your wife is on board before you pick up your petition. My family is number 1 to me and I assumed that my wife would be in full support of my campaign, but I was wrong. In the future, I will make very sure that my wife approves my decisions before I make them. Your family is highly effected when you decide to run for office, make sure they are on board before you make even your first move.
2. Choose your opponent wisely. You have to be careful about choosing who you run against. I assumed that a 20 year incumbent would not be interested in putting up much of a fight given the current anti-incumbent atmosphere. But was I wrong! She knocked on doors and even decided to buy signs, as I had heard her say that she did not have to buy signs anymore. She saw the challenge and made changes to her election plan. I admire Mrs. Ealy and when I called her to congratulate her I really meant that I was willing to help her in anyway because I care for our community more than I do my own pride. Unfortunately she has yet to ever return my phone call.
3. Press the issues. Robert Arnold did a great job of this. His mail outs cut deep, and he had Truman Jones and his staff reeling the entire election. I never really pushed that hard. Yes I told people about her voting record on property taxes, but I never really made the real push by sending out a mailing detailing the differences between her and I. I thought that since it was a neighborhood race I should not go “dirty” and instead just talk about my platform and not about the incumbent.
4. Get more volunteers. Because I am active in many local political groups I have a slew of friends with tons of political knowledge and expertise. My problem was that much of their abilities were spread out across many campaigns. Of course the republicans swept the ticket and that makes me happy, but we did not place enough true conservatives on the county commission as we had planned. It takes money and people to win elections. I was able to raise the money because I have the best network of friends on the planet, and I have experience as a stock broker and the key to that business is asking for the check to close the deal. Next time, I’ll first make sure first that my wife is on board, and then I will find some people that will focus on my race alone.
5. Carry pepper spray. Really, when knocking on lots of doors, you have to beware of dogs and other dangers. I was bitten twice, once by a pit bull on my forearm, and once by a very little over aggressive dog on the ankle. I was also stung by a wasp and sprained my foot because I stepped in hole I didn't see. There are prices to pay when running for office, but even these were not as great as missing my family. You spend a lot of time away from your family during a race and its a struggle on the it as well on yourself.
6. A little about me. I have lived in Murfreesboro for less than 3 years, and yet I received 673 votes. My opponent received 1325 and has lived here for over 40. You do the math, I laugh and tell people I have time on my side and there is something to that.
I’ve learned that politics is mostly a popularity contest. Most people do not care your stance on many issues, they vote for who they know. In time more people will know and recognize my name and hopefully they will vote for me. I care about this community, it is my home. It is where I have decided to raise my family and I will continue to be involved and press for my conservative values to be represented by our elected officials and therefore in the laws of our county and of our state. I know that the people of Rutherford County share the same opinion I have on most issues, so I doubt this will be the last time they see my name on the ballot.
I've heard it said that, “Experience is the worst teacher. It gives the test before it gives the lesson.” And there is a lot of truth in it. Now I have experience, and hopefully if you ever decide to run and you'll have read this you will avoid some of the pitfalls I made. We must remember its not whether we lose, but how we lose and how we might change because of it. What is important is what we take away from the loss that we never had before, to apply to our future endeavors. Losing, when done right, is winning.